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Chislehurst is a leafy village in the London Borough of Bromley, with a wide common, quiet lanes and a real village feel despite being so close to central London. It is a lovely, calm place for a first meeting. Check opening times before you go.

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First date ideas in Chislehurst

Three easy places to meet someone new in and around Chislehurst. Check opening times before you go.

  • Chislehurst Common

    A large, open common with woodland and grass in the heart of the village. Free to enter and an easy place to walk.

  • Scadbury Park

    A nature reserve with parkland and woodland paths near Chislehurst. Free to visit, so wear comfortable shoes.

  • Petts Wood

    Woodland to the south of the village, a short way from Orpington. Free to enter, with shady paths and quiet seats.

Around Chislehurst

Neighbourhoods and nearby towns: Chislehurst village, Sidcup, Mottingham, Petts Wood, Orpington and Elmstead.

Getting there: Chislehurst station has Southeastern trains to central London. Buses link the village, and the A222 and A20 are the main roads nearby.

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Questions about dating in Chislehurst

What is a good first date in Chislehurst?

There are plenty of easy options: a walk on Chislehurst Common, a stroll in Scadbury Park and an afternoon in Petts Wood. Choose somewhere public, keep it short and check opening times before you go.

How do I get to Chislehurst?

Chislehurst station has Southeastern trains to central London. Buses link the village, and the A222 and A20 are the main roads nearby.

Can I join Silver Gay Singles from Chislehurst?

Yes. Creating a profile is free, and you can say where you live. Silver Gay Singles covers the whole UK, so you can look at other towns too.

Is it safe to meet someone from online dating in Chislehurst?

Meet somewhere public, tell a friend where you are going and keep the first date short. Our guide to dating safely has more tips.