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Bexley is a quiet, green south east London borough on the Kent border, with historic parks, old houses and a long Thames side. It is a calm, friendly place to meet someone new. Check opening times before you go.
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First date ideas in Bexley
Three easy places to meet someone new in and around Bexley. Check opening times before you go.
Danson Park
A large park with a lake, lawns and an old house at its heart. Free to enter and a pleasant place to stroll.
Lesnes Abbey
The ruins of a medieval abbey in woodland above the Thames at Abbey Wood. Free to wander, so check opening times before you go.
Hall Place and Gardens
A historic house with formal gardens beside the River Cray in Bexley. Check opening times before you go.
Around Bexley
Neighbourhoods and nearby towns: Bexleyheath, Sidcup, Welling, Erith, Crayford, Abbey Wood and Old Bexley.
Getting there: The Elizabeth line serves Abbey Wood, and Southeastern trains run to Bexleyheath, Sidcup, Welling, Bexley and Erith. Buses link the borough, and the A2, A20 and A206 are the main roads.
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Questions about dating in Bexley
What is a good first date in Bexley?
There are plenty of easy options: a walk in Danson Park, a visit to Lesnes Abbey and a wander around Hall Place and Gardens. Choose somewhere public, keep it short and check opening times before you go.
How do I get to Bexley?
The Elizabeth line serves Abbey Wood, and Southeastern trains run to Bexleyheath, Sidcup, Welling, Bexley and Erith. Buses link the borough, and the A2, A20 and A206 are the main roads.
Can I join Silver Gay Singles from Bexley?
Yes. Creating a profile is free, and you can say where you live. Silver Gay Singles covers the whole UK, so you can look at other towns too.
Is it safe to meet someone from online dating in Bexley?
Meet somewhere public, tell a friend where you are going and keep the first date short. Our guide to dating safely has more tips.