A community of mature gay men
Silver Gay Singles is for gay men over 50 who want honest company, good conversation and, for many, a lasting relationship. You will find men from all over the UK, at a similar stage of life to you.
Who is here
Over 6,000 members, nearly all of them men, and about 98% in the UK. Our members are mostly in their 50s, 60s and beyond. About 81% are 55 or over, and nearly half are 65 or over.
Share of members in each age group. A few younger members are part of the community too, and everyone is expected to be respectful and kind.
What we value
A good community is one where everyone feels comfortable. These are the values we hope every member shares.
Respect
Treat every member as you would like to be treated. Be patient, courteous and kind, and take no for an answer gracefully.
Honesty
Be yourself. Say what you are looking for, whether that is love, companionship or a friendly chat, and use a profile that reflects who you are.
Safety
Take your time, protect your personal details and meet in public places. Our guide to dating safely explains how.
Across the whole country
Our members live in cities, towns and villages in England, Scotland, Wales and Northern Ireland. Find your part of the UK on our near me page.
When you are ready to meet someone, start small. A walk, a coffee or a visit to a gallery gives you time to talk without pressure. Our first date ideas are a good place to start, and our FAQ and features page explain how everything works.
Come and join us
Create your free profile and meet mature gay men who value good company as much as you do.