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Southampton is a busy port city with medieval walls, a big common and plenty of waterfront. It is a lively, welcoming place to meet someone new at your own pace. Check opening times before you go.
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First date ideas in Southampton
Three easy places to meet someone new in and around Southampton. Check opening times before you go.
The Bargate and old walls
A medieval gateway at the top of Southampton's high street, with stretches of old town wall nearby. Free to see, and an easy place to meet.
Southampton Common
A very large open common with woodland, ponds and long walks close to Southampton city centre. Free to enter.
Mayflower Park
A waterfront park beside the docks, with views over Southampton Water. Free to enter and good for a stroll.
Around Southampton
Neighbourhoods and nearby towns: Southampton city centre, Portswood, Shirley, Woolston and Bitterne.
Getting there: Southampton Central has trains to London Waterloo, Winchester, Portsmouth and Bournemouth, and Southampton Airport Parkway is on the same line. The M3, M27 and A33 are the main roads.
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Questions about dating in Southampton
What is a good first date in Southampton?
There are plenty of easy options: a wander around the Bargate, a walk on Southampton Common and a stroll in Mayflower Park. Choose somewhere public, keep it short and check opening times before you go.
How do I get to Southampton?
Southampton Central has trains to London Waterloo, Winchester, Portsmouth and Bournemouth, and Southampton Airport Parkway is on the same line. The M3, M27 and A33 are the main roads.
Can I join Silver Gay Singles from Southampton?
Yes. Creating a profile is free, and you can say where you live. Silver Gay Singles covers the whole UK, so you can look at other towns too.
Is it safe to meet someone from online dating in Southampton?
Meet somewhere public, tell a friend where you are going and keep the first date short. Our guide to dating safely has more tips.