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Selby is a market town on the River Ouse, with a magnificent abbey in the middle of the town. It is a quiet, friendly place with York and Leeds both within easy reach. Check opening times before you go.
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First date ideas in Selby
Three easy places to meet someone new in and around Selby. Check opening times before you go.
Selby Abbey
A grand medieval abbey church in the middle of Selby town centre. A calm place to visit, so check opening times before you go.
The River Ouse and the Toll Bridge
A wooden toll bridge crosses the River Ouse beside the town, with a riverside path to stroll along. Free to walk, but check the weather.
The Selby Canal
A quiet canal towpath leading out of town through the countryside. Flat and easy, so pick a short stretch and turn back whenever you like.
Around Selby
Neighbourhoods and nearby towns: Selby town centre, Barlby, Brayton, Thorpe Willoughby, Riccall, Cawood and Hambleton.
Getting there: Selby station has trains to Leeds and Hull. Buses link the town with York and the villages around it, and the A19, A63 and A1(M) are the main roads.
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Questions about dating in Selby
What is a good first date in Selby?
There are plenty of easy options: a visit to Selby Abbey, a walk by the River Ouse and a stroll along the canal. Choose somewhere public, keep it short and check opening times before you go.
How do I get to Selby?
Selby station has trains to Leeds and Hull. Buses link the town with York and the villages around it, and the A19, A63 and A1(M) are the main roads.
Can I join Silver Gay Singles from Selby?
Yes. Creating a profile is free, and you can say where you live. Silver Gay Singles covers the whole UK, so you can look at other towns too.
Is it safe to meet someone from online dating in Selby?
Meet somewhere public, tell a friend where you are going and keep the first date short. Our guide to dating safely has more tips.