East of Scotland
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The Lothians surround Edinburgh, with the capital's old and new towns, the Firth of Forth and a coast of sandy beaches and small harbours. It is a friendly, easy part of Scotland to meet someone new. Check opening times before you go.
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First date ideas in Lothian
Three easy places to meet someone new in and around Lothian. Check opening times before you go.
Princes Street Gardens
Gardens in the middle of Edinburgh, below the castle rock. Free to enter, with benches, lawns and views up to the old town.
The Forth Bridge at South Queensferry
The red railway bridge across the Firth of Forth, with the road bridges beside it. Free to look at from the shore.
North Berwick beach
Sandy beaches beside the harbour in North Berwick, with the Law hill above the town. Free to walk and breezy.
Around Lothian
Towns and countryside: Edinburgh, Musselburgh, Haddington, Dunbar, North Berwick, Livingston and South Queensferry.
Main places
- Edinburgh
- Musselburgh
- Haddington
- Dunbar
- North Berwick
- Livingston
Getting there: Edinburgh Waverley is on the East Coast Main Line, with trains to Glasgow, Newcastle and London, and local services run east to North Berwick and Dunbar. The A1, A720 city bypass and M8 are the main roads.
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Questions about dating in Lothian
What is a good first date in Lothian?
There are plenty of easy options: a walk in Princes Street Gardens, a view of the Forth Bridge and a stroll on North Berwick beach. Choose somewhere public, keep it short and check opening times before you go.
How do I get to Lothian?
Edinburgh Waverley is on the East Coast Main Line, with trains to Glasgow, Newcastle and London, and local services run east to North Berwick and Dunbar. The A1, A720 city bypass and M8 are the main roads.
Can I join Silver Gay Singles from Lothian?
Yes. Creating a profile is free, and you can say where you live. Silver Gay Singles covers the whole UK, so you can look at other towns too.
Is it safe to meet someone from online dating in Lothian?
Meet somewhere public, tell a friend where you are going and keep the first date short. Our guide to dating safely has more tips.