County Durham
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Durham is a beautiful cathedral city on the River Wear, with a medieval castle, wooded riverbanks and a World Heritage setting. It is a gentle, friendly place for a first meeting. County Durham around it is a mix of market towns, old pit villages and open Pennine country. Check opening times before you go.
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First date ideas in Durham
Three easy places to meet someone new in and around Durham. Check opening times before you go.
Durham Cathedral and Palace Green
A great Norman cathedral and castle on a rocky bend of the River Wear, a World Heritage Site. Check opening times before you go.
The riverbanks and Prebends Bridge
Wooded paths beside the River Wear, with classic views of the cathedral from Prebends Bridge. Free to walk, so wear comfortable shoes.
Wharton Park
A hillside park near Durham railway station with a famous view across the city to the cathedral. Free to enter and a nice spot for a bench chat.
Around Durham
Towns and countryside: Durham city centre, Chester le Street, Consett, Bishop Auckland, Barnard Castle, Seaham and Peterlee. In County Durham beyond the city you will also find Weardale and Teesdale, with their moorland, waterfalls and quiet villages.
Main towns
- Chester le Street
- Consett
- Bishop Auckland
- Barnard Castle
- Seaham
- Peterlee
- Darlington
Getting there: Durham station is on the East Coast Main Line, with direct trains to London King's Cross, York, Newcastle and Edinburgh. The Durham Coast line serves Seaham and Peterlee, a branch line runs to Bishop Auckland, and the A1(M), A690 and A167 are the main roads.
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Questions about dating in Durham
What is a good first date in Durham?
There are plenty of easy options: a visit to Durham Cathedral, a riverside walk to Prebends Bridge and a stroll in Wharton Park. Choose somewhere public, keep it short and check opening times before you go.
How do I get to Durham?
Durham station is on the East Coast Main Line, with direct trains to London King's Cross, York, Newcastle and Edinburgh. The Durham Coast line serves Seaham and Peterlee, a branch line runs to Bishop Auckland, and the A1(M), A690 and A167 are the main roads.
Can I join Silver Gay Singles from Durham?
Yes. Creating a profile is free, and you can say where you live. Silver Gay Singles covers the whole UK, so you can look at other towns too.
Is it safe to meet someone from online dating in Durham?
Meet somewhere public, tell a friend where you are going and keep the first date short. Our guide to dating safely has more tips.